{"id":77,"date":"2010-11-17T14:02:00","date_gmt":"2010-11-17T14:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/otitijasmine.wordpress.com\/2010\/11\/17\/equal-measures"},"modified":"2010-11-17T14:02:00","modified_gmt":"2010-11-17T14:02:00","slug":"equal-measures","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/2010\/11\/17\/equal-measures\/","title":{"rendered":"Equal Measures"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">It takes a strong man to handle a strong woman.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Wait. Before you roll your eyes and mutter &#8220;So what else is new?&#8221;, think about it. Why is it that some men have to compensate for their inferiority complexes by maltreating their partners? One husband gives his beautiful wife reason to doubt her looks and appeal to other men. Some boyfriend picks at his girlfriend&#8217;s self-esteem and does his best to whittle away her independence. Yet another dude habitually pummels his significant other then begs for forgiveness later (or not, depends). Why? <em>Why??<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Simple. They don&#8217;t belong together. He&#8217;s out of her league. After all, if you don&#8217;t feel threatened by someone, why would you attack that person at any and every chance you get? If you&#8217;re compelled to maintain the upper hand in order to feel secure in your relationship, obviously you&#8217;ve got problems and they <em>ain&#8217;t<\/em>\u00a0with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Anyway, I was just thinking. Equal measures. Strong and weak do not go well together. Not healthy at all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">It takes two equals to make a good match, and that&#8217;s the honest truth. So if you do not measure up, improve yourself. Making the other person pay for your deficiency is just petty, wrong, \u00a0even juvenile. So grow and get your act right.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><span style=\"color:#000000;\"><img alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"geo-post-77\" class=\"geo geo-post\" style=\"display: none\"><span class=\"latitude\">51.045925<\/span><span class=\"longitude\">7.01922<\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It takes a strong man to handle a strong woman. Wait. Before you roll your eyes and mutter &#8220;So what else is new?&#8221;, think about it. Why is it that some men have to compensate for their inferiority complexes by &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/2010\/11\/17\/equal-measures\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[111,126,138],"class_list":["post-77","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random","tag-people","tag-relationship","tag-self-esteem"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=77"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=77"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=77"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.otitijasmine.com\/otitijasmine.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=77"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}