Yesterday my sister and I discussed some of the double standards rampant in society. Like, guys think it’s OK for them to get with a woman and her sister and her friend and her cousin, but God forbid any woman trying the same thing. How dare she? And every man protects his sister(s) and female cousins (if any) from his friends because he doesn’t want her to “get hurt”. So I wonder, what about all the other women who inevitably get burnt by his escapades? Not all of us have brothers ready to defend our virtue, LOL. For instance, we’re only girls in my house. Does that make us fair game for the fellas? Besides, I believe a lot of dudes give their gender a bad name. It simply can’t be that all men are dogs and jerks. I mean really, what hope is there for us girls if that’s the case?
Oh, and how about the outlook that a promisucous man is a player but a promiscuous woman is a whore? Come on now, let’s not split hairs on the issue. If she chooses to be a maneater, that’s her decision innit? I see no reason why she should be condemned for it. After all, I don’t see anyone losing sleep over the fact that he’s an absolute tart. It’s not that I think it’s right for either sex to behave that way, I just think society’s reaction should be the same for everyone and not discriminatory based on physiological differences.
Anyway. I was thinking about it earlier today and it’s a disgrace. Is monogamy a dead principle? Is fidelity a worthless ideal? I don’t get it. Yes I know there are wonderful gentlemen out there who act right and everything, but you hardly hear about them. The ones dominating the spotlight are mostly the ones who lie, cheat, and act like little boys let loose in a candy store. I’m like really? REALLY?? There must be more to the male species than those who think with the wrong head. Prove me right, gents. Prove me right.